Yes, those wonderful words were likely uttered by my friend’s Principal recently as some kids were told they’d done enough damage to the school-year and were asked to leave. One was given independent study, the other kicked out … for good reason. Apparently, his parent gave the school a false address in order to attend. I have no idea why. The school is getting more prestigious in the inner city where it sits but it is hardly a place yet where one would lie about their address to attend.
It is more probable the student couldn’t get in somewhere else … due to fighting … due to suspensions … I’m not sure. They were both fighters who showed little respect for teachers. In times like these when justice is served, it can feel like inspiration to teachers. With these particular kids, the teachers had patiently gone through all the avenues of referrals and classroom discipline etc. It was beyond their control when the students both, in their own way, continued to make learning difficult for the students around them.
I’m not a big fan of showboating “justice” at another’s expense. At the same time, isn’t that what justice is all about? All I know is that their former classrooms will a lot more conducive to learning now that justice has been served. In my classroom, there are many days when I don’t document a repeat offender. I just try and get through the lesson. That is wrong, I see that now. I need to be tireless in documenting when these type disrupt class. My friend is like that, and justice is now the result.
I am all for giving second chances but how many should you give kids who seem unable to respect the rules of the classroom? I had heard too many stories from my friend. You can be VERY forgiving all year and lose a lot of learning opportunities. -OR- You can document students who disrupt over and over again to one day eventually, deliver them back to their parents. I know my friend is rejoicing that “towing the line” and following lengthy discipline procedures paid off in the end.
I often measure my level of success by those around me. This is not always the best way to success itself. If a colleague of mine has high scores in a given area, I tend to compete to get my just as high. But scores aren’t always the most important target. In fact, I have learned that when I search my heart for the things and methods that matter for my success, the test scores just come automatically. Perhaps that is true with any measure of success in work per se.
One of the quotes on my quote page says: “If at first you don’t succedd, redefine success.” I don’t know who said it but it is a very true axiom. Many times we do the same thing over and over and get nowhere. Some of us are stubborn and refuse to try something new or risky out of fear that it won’t work. The truth is that we must define our own success and find a way there.
Another analogy is from my blogging life. I have had more trouble than you can shake a stick at with the menalto “gallery” software on my blog. In this latest migration/merger on my 4 blogs into one, I have lost all of my internal photos hosted on the gallery software. I have spent the last 3 days trying to get it to work at the new loaction to no avail. The temptation is to get down and dirty in the forums and find a solutions but hosestly, I don’t want to spend another moment on it. I am simply making a folder called “images” where I will host and organize my own pics for the blog and aim at success that way. Mostly I chose this path because I CAN DO IT. All too often, I try to look the part when I really don’t have the know how.
What is causing you grief about work today? I encourage you to look at it another way and find a different way to success. You will find, once there, that people will applaud … even if not at first. It will be seen.
February 22, 2010 – 10:57 pm
Most the time on my job as a teacher I get the instant rewards of kids making me those ornately folded origami shapes that when opened say “Mr. Riley, you are the best teacher in the world.” I get stuff like that once in a while and it keeps my spirits high. Unfortunately, there are many other times when adults in my life let me down. When they treat each other (and me) poorly. Sometimes people around me are so immature it makes me want to just move to Berkeley and make money selling Herman Hesse books … of course, that is not an option. Drat.
I put those little notes from my students in a folder labeled “inspiration.” When I’m having a bummer day, I go through those notes and they remind me why I teach. They fill my spirit up. They remind me why I teach.
Whatever your job is, I am sure you can take the time to remember why you went into it. Our jobs will never be perfect but we can be an example of the way we want it to be. When no inspiration is coming from outside ourselves, we have to be “grown-ups” and find the strength within. Once we find it, we need to share it with others, even as hard as that may seem sometimes. Be the light of your life and remind others what it’s about.
February 21, 2010 – 8:24 pm
Things in the past 10 years have changed incredibly. Where college graduation used to require hours and hours in a classroom and commons, an online degree has now virtually surpassed that as the degree of choice. The changes continue. It is certain the next 10 years are going to be rough for teachers. Even if the economy comes back, it will take a long time for those dollars to “trickle down” into the state budgets for education. Already, we teachers are learning to do less with more. I of course am always looking for new ways to use less paper. My goal was once a “paperless classroom” but I have since learned that “less paper” is probably the only rational thing I can pursue. Kids need to practice with pencils and the dry erase get dry really fast. But what about the rest of the world and all the occupations therein? How much paper will the high-rise buildings save now that times are so tight. What positions will be deemed “unnecessary” and which ones will take on twice the work thereafter?
It is a daunting thought but I see a silver lining in all this. Perhaps we will develop human pathways to success we never would have thought of before. As I said, I am using my overhead and powerpoint lessons more than handouts and recycling anything I can at work. I have a childlike sense of wonder as to how the working world will become less “fat” in its waste of paper, ink, and a million other things that are useless. Our meetings are no longer catered by a ocal sandwich shop and I would assume that is the case for businesses across the grid. I’m curious to hear how your work is cutting costs. Have you learned some ways to save supplies? Let us know … I am sure this kind of stuff is happening and we should get ideas from each other to make the recession just that much more bearable. We should all be inspired by this opportunity to rise above and excel amid adversity.
George Lucas struggled for years to make people believe in his vision. He is an amazing filmmaker and an example to all of us who have visions that are outside the norm.
Lucas started his career with an odd futuristic movie that not many people “got” only to follow that with “American Graffitti,” a 50’s nostalgia flick that also got mixed reviews. You would think at this point, since he is in a career that relies upon public approval, that Lucas would have adopted the most popular genre and tried to gain fans through addressing that. But he didn’t.
Instead he spent years working on a high budget space movie unlike anything the public had seen or approved of throughout history. It was Star Wars, released in 1977. I was 8 years old when I saw Star Wars the first time, and my mind was blown, along with the minds of every other kid about my age. I saw Star Wars 17 times as a kid. The movie was part of my psyche. I remember playing the soundtrack record and reciting lines from the movie as I did.
Since then, Lucas has been able to do whatever he chooses with film. His story is truly an amazing thing. Oh, and one other tidbit that brings his story home to me is the fact that he was born close to me in Modesto, California . . . not on Mount Zion or other place like that.
There are countless kids (including adult kids) that Star Wars has amazed. Thanks for believing in your vision George.
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I love going to Mexico for the food! And for especially the tacos! I’ve lived in Southern California all my life and taken trips to Tijuana, Rosarito, and even Guadalajara since I was 15 years old. There is a lot to say about Mexico, and I probably will say a lot more on Riley Central in the future. After all, I spent 3 months living there in college learning Spanish conversation at uag.mx I guess, there’s so much to say, I’m waiting until I can say it right! If it’s not obvious, I’m not Hispanic. My 3 siblings and I are of Irish and German descent. I simply have an affinity for the Mexican culture and the more I learn the more enamored I become! Some people, I have found, go donw to mexico to buy the highest quality at the cheapest prices on every random thing from piggy banks to light bulbs. The food is pretty darned great too!
I could share with you the many deals there are in Mexico but for now, I want to tell you about a culinary piece of heaven you can only find in Mexico: the Mexican taco stand!
I found an amazing site that described the allure and mystique of the thing. I almost decided the web didn’t need another post. It was that good, there’s also an awesome picture . . . check it out here. But I have such a passion for that food! If you know the feel of 2 warm handmade corn tortillas in your hand with just-chopped meat, salt, cilantro and onion and a refilled glass bottle of Coke (that you are asked to return) then you know the drill!
If you have 2 dollars you can get full. If you have 5 you can feed your whole family. There are no health codes for taco stands in Mexico, but there is a bright side to that: good old hometown family cooking.
Just remember to not eat hot dogs wrapped in bacon. One night years ago, walking to the motel, after the bar . . . it looked sooo good. I’ll spare you the details.
Anywayz, we have a Baja Fresh by our house. I went there tonight with my son and we got Mexican style tacos. It approaches authentic, but unfortunately, it just isn’t the same. We’re planning a cruise to Mexico in the next year . . . I long for those mystic taco stands . . . I gotta get my fix before I lose my mojo!
April 30, 2009 – 10:16 pm
I’ve been a fan of the Twilight Zone since I was a young kid. Every Thanksgiving, channel 5 used to host a “Twilight Zone Marathon” that I would curl up and watch along with a few pumpkin pies and some whipped cream.
I have some favorite episodes: 1) The gremlin on the wing with William Shatner , 2) “No Change,” 3) The librarian one where Burgess Meredith breaks his glasses . . . so many good ones. It’s absolutely mind boggling that the massive collection of shows were all written and directed by ONE MAN: Rod Serling.
He worked through his short life at his vision and gave millions joy. If there is one take-away creative people can get from his life it’s this:
Be patient as you work because you never know which idea will be your “biggie.” Case in point:
Stemming from a (Serling-scripted) Westinghouse Desilu Playhouse entry called “The Time Element” in November 1958, Serling created, executive produced, hosted and (for the most part) wrote the half-hour science-fantasy anthology The Twilight Zone, networked by CBS from 1959 to 1964. The series not only created a whole new programming genre for television, it also offered Serling an opportunity to say things he could never get away with in more conventional dramatizations. The weekly tales remain memorable for allowing the viewer to enter “the middle ground between light and shadow, between science and superstition…” which lay “between the pit of man’s fears and the summit of his knowledge”. (source)
Be true to your vision.
Have you noticed in your life there are some people who are always happy? Nothing gets them down and they are just great to be around? That’s how I hope to be . . . I am sure I don’t always acheive it though.
There is a lot of negative energy in this world. I have learned through hard experience not to give it my energy or attention. The next time someone says something or you read something that tends to get your gander up, just breathe and say “That’s negative energy, I have no time for it.”
When you figure we all get “80 years with luck or even less” (Pink Floyd quote) it is a bad idea to accept energy into our lives that breaks down. We need stuff that builds up in everything we let in. If negative people claim you ignore them and their thoughts, just tell them worse things have happened at sea. Accentuate the positive, you won’t regret it.
13 Ways I Stay Positive:
- Positive internal talk.
- Compliment people around me.
- Practice “Possibility” thinking.
- Take time to order my work and living areas
- Consciously smiling more
- Being the first to shake hands
- Having real expectations
- Practied thankfulness (attitude of grattitude)
- Saying “Whatever it is I have it is enough for today.”
- The serenity prayer
- Roll on the carpet and play with my kids and dog physically.
- Play guitar
- Write